Know, Accept and BE Yourself
Never feel 'held back' again!
My mission is to help 10,000 people transform from feeling not good enough and holding themselves back, to fully embracing their uniqueness, so they can be loved and accepted for who they really are.
They learn how to confidently shine their light, turn pain into power, and go from feeling stuck to knowing they are unstoppable, making a positive and lasting difference in the world.
Will you join me?
“You are not one person but three — the one you think you are, the one other people think you are and the person you really are.” — from the Writer’s Digest Guide to Successful Living, 1957
A Message for Women Who:
If any of these statements apply to you, then you do not fully know and accept yourself, so you cannot fully BE yourself.
Can You relate?
Do you admire those people who, it seems, have always had a strong sense of their personality, gifts and abilities and what's most important to them. Those who knew who they were and what they wanted to accomplish from a young age.
We hear about them all the time - the comedian who knew he was born to make people laugh, or the person who loves to act or sing and always knew that's what they wanted to do. I just finished reading the book More Myself, by Alicia Keys, and she describes very well how she knew from a young age that music was the most important thing to her.
Did you know how to answer the question "what do you want to be when you grow up?" I had no idea what I wanted to be or what was possible.
So often the person you think you are, is based on the messages you received growing up, and those messages are often based on other people's expectations of you, which reflect their beliefs, conditioning and opinions.
That was certainly true for me. I thought it wasn't okay to want anything for myself. I had to focus on others all the time and take care of them.
I thought I was the only one who felt like this, but I have since discovered that there are many of us.
When you don't know who you really are, you have a tendency to:
This also leads you to have no idea what it is that you really want, so you find yourself in jobs that are unfulfilling, or working so hard that you become exhausted and overwhelmed. You have no passion for what you do so you feel under-valued and unfulfilled.
You have no sense of why you’re here and what your true gifts and passions are, often you even wonder if you have any, or if you just got the short end of the stick. So you feel lost and drift from one thing to another without any sense of where you’re going or why. You wake up one day wondering how you arrived here and may even feel there’s no hope.
You find yourself fitting into other people’s agendas, so you’re always last on the list. Other people’s needs come before your own. You somehow feel responsible for others’ pain and insecurities. So you end up doing things that feel meaningless and unfulfilling to you, yet you don’t know how to stop the cycle.
I used to feel so insecure that I never felt anything I did was good enough. Even though my bosses praised my work, I was scared that at any moment they would find out that I really wasn't good enough - because that's how I felt.
You want to be happy, and you may have many things to be grateful for (a good job, a nice home, a family) but instead what you feel is exhausted,, undervalued and unfulfilled.
What WON'T Help You "Fix"... You
When you feel that you're different from everyone else, and you've been criticized for those differences, you have a tendency to look for someone to provide you with the answers. You look for whatever it is you're missing that will 'fix' you, so you'll fit in and be accepted.
That's exactly what I did. I took courses, I worked with coaches, and energy healers. I enrolled in programs to help me figure out what was wrong with me and fix it so that I could finally feel happy, successful and fulfilled.
I did a presentation recently where I listed many of the self-improvement things I had done and it shocked even me.
Just to give you an idea, I have studied and taken over 30+ courses on topics like:
I have studied with and worked directly with over 20 great coaches; I essentially became a master of personal growth and self-help study.
I have also worked with several health and energy practitioners to help make me ‘better.’
As you can see, I’ve invested a tremendous amount of time, energy and money over the years trying to fix that which I thought was clearly "broken".
When I put this list together and showed it during my presentation, I was actually embarrassed at how much I had done in an attempt to "fix" myself.
But an interesting thing happened. When the presentation was over, several people came up to me and said they completely identified with me and had a similar experience. They said things like:
When you grow up believing you are who others think you are, you feel lost, and spend your time searching for the one person, or the one thing that can help you, whether that’s reading every self-help book and taking every self-improvement program you can find (like me), or looking for the healer, health practitioner, coach or treatment that has the answers. Or perhaps you turn to something to take the pain away, like medication, alcohol, food or some other addiction.
You search for that elusive missing piece. You think if you just had that you would feel better. Yet you never seem to find it.
What happens when you don't know who you (really) are? Here are some examples - you may be familiar with some of them.
I could go on.
You may be wondering what these things have to do with knowing, and being who you are. They may seem like random, external things to you, but they are not.
Knowing and connecting with who you really are is liberating. Being able to accept that you're not like everyone else and, not only is that okay, it's more than okay. It's how it's supposed to be.
When you know and accept who you are you can own your uniqueness which leads to confidence, peace and meaningful success.
The only way to accomplish this is to go within. To access what’s been there all along. For a long time I knew this, but I didn’t know how to access those answers. I spent years figuring that out.
Finally, little by little I discovered what worked. I discovered steps to easily and consistently find the answers I needed.
As I discovered these steps and techniques, I began to share them with my clients, because I wanted to show that this works for anyone, not just me. And the results have been amazing:
“When I look back on the past 5 weeks I can’t believe how much I have changed. I feel like I have more control, more peace in my life. I’m more accepting of others, I have a better relationship with my brother, not so jealous, more loving relationship. Same with my mom. I feel like I’m releasing a lot of things that I have had inside for a long time.”
- Marie
"I had a wonderful moment of clarity about fear. I have allowed fear way too much power over me in my life. It doesn't have to be that way. It's so obvious all of a sudden. In trying to sort it out, I realized that there were 5 different things contributing to the fear of this moment.”
- Tracey
Now that I'm more connected with who I really am, I've gone from being terrified of speaking up in front of any kind of group, to confidently, and enjoyably presenting and speaking in front of all kinds of audiences.
I've gone from hiding behind the scenes, to being front and center - even a regular guest on a local TV news show! When you know who you REALLY are, you can accomplish anything - even things that would have terrified you before!
I know first-hand how things improve and how much happier you will be when you are able to fully know, accept and then BE who you REALLY are, and that's what I want for you.
The world needs YOU - the real you.
It's time to strip away all the layers of who you are not, and who you thought you were, and let yourself be fully, completely and wonderfully YOU.
That's why I created this membership program, so we could come together and support each other on this journey.
What's included
Here's what's included:
Welcome
Making the Most of Your Membership
FREE PREVIEW12 Step Process
The Importance of Self-Love
Who are you?
FREE PREVIEWWhat is important?
Success
What do you want?
Your why
Personalities
Collective Energy
Letting go of Trauma
Skills, Talents and Abilities
What Did You Learn?
Going Deeper
Understanding Your Energy
Beliefs and Conditioning
Recurring Patterns
Your Emotional Guidance System
The Enneagram
What Are You Learning About Yourself?
What Are Your Stories?
Letting Go Of The Past
Re-writing Your Stories
Changing a Story
Comparing
How to Stop Comparing
Managing Your Energy
Do it YOUR Way
Confidence
Self-Esteem
Money
Money Belief Questionnaire
Thoughts About Money assignment
Embracing Your Value and Worth
Dealing with Difficult People
Your Relationship with Yourself
Family Relationships
Your Circle of Influence
Learning From Situations
What Other People Teach You
The Importance of Acceptance
Being Present
Self-Sabotage and Upper Limits
Boundaries
Transforming Beliefs and Conditioning
Dealing with Fear
Losing Yourself
Perfectionism
Expectations
Taking Things Personally
How to Know What's Holding You Back
Radical Self-Care
Improving Self-Care
Purpose
Passion
Vision
Your Soul's Purpose
Inner Purpose vs Outer Purpose
About Forgiveness
Who Do You Need to Forgive?
Forgiving Yourself
Resources for When You Undervalue Yourself
Energy Tips for Self Love and Self-Care
Resources for Self-Care
Empowering Affirmations/Mantras
Self Awareness Tools
Resources for Anxiety and Overwhelm
Affirmations for Self-Esteem
Recommended Reading
Resources for Identifying Your Passion, Purpose, Vision
Resources for Intention Setting
Resources for Increased Happiness
Resources for Energy Holding You Back
December 2020
January 2021 Q&A Call Recording
February 2021 Q&A Call Recording
March 2021 Q&A Call Recording
How to Apply What You've Learned - real life example
This is designed to be a year-long program. The program starts now and is a completely self-paced - you decide when you start and how fast you want to go through the materials.
After joining, you have unlimited access to this site for as long as you are a member - across any and all devices you own.
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied you can leave at any time. When you leave your payments and membership access will be cancelled.
That depends on you - on your current situation, and on how completely you implement what you learn in the program. I will do everything I can to lead you to the results you want as quickly as possible. The time it takes is different for everyone.
If you do the (inner) work, you will see results. Things will change. I will support you in every way that I can.
The level of guidance, tools and support you'll receive in this membership program are not to be found anywhere else, apart from personal coaching programs, which cost thousands. My number one priority is your success.
The program is completely self-paced. There is no requirement for you to complete assignments by a certain time. It also does not require much of your time - lessons are short, assignments are designed to give you awareness, rather than needing to take up a lot of time. You can access the materials whenever you want.
If you are ready for things to change then it is absolutely a good fit for you. If you want something that works and you want guidance and support, then it's a good fit for you.
The Breakthrough Energy Expert
Linda Binns